Laisser les enfants participer aux tâches ménagères

在很多家庭里，父母把所有事情都帮孩子做好，孩子唯一的任务就是学习。

Zài (fourth tone, falling) hěn (third tone, dipping) duō (first tone, high and level) jiātíng (first tone, high and level) li, (neutral tone) fùmǔ (fourth tone, falling) bǎ (third tone, dipping) suǒyǒu (third tone, dipping) shìqing (fourth tone, falling) dōu (first tone, high and level) bāng (first tone, high and level) háizi (second tone, rising) zuò (fourth tone, falling) hǎo, (third tone, dipping) háizi (second tone, rising) wéiyī (second tone, rising) de (neutral tone) rènwu (fourth tone, falling) jiù (fourth tone, falling) shì (fourth tone, falling) xuéxí. (second tone, rising)

Dans beaucoup de familles, les parents font tout à la place des enfants, dont la seule tâche est d’étudier.

有的家长认为，孩子还小，做家务既浪费时间，又容易出错，不如把时间用在学习上。

Yǒude (third tone, dipping) jiāzhǎng (first tone, high and level) rènwéi, (fourth tone, falling) háizi (second tone, rising) hái (second tone, rising) xiǎo, (third tone, dipping) zuò (fourth tone, falling) jiāwù (first tone, high and level) jì (fourth tone, falling) làngfèi (fourth tone, falling) shíjiān, (second tone, rising) yòu (fourth tone, falling) róngyì (second tone, rising) chūcuò, (first tone, high and level) bùrú (fourth tone, falling) bǎ (third tone, dipping) shíjiān (second tone, rising) yòng (fourth tone, falling) zài (fourth tone, falling) xuéxí (second tone, rising) shang. (neutral tone)

Certains parents pensent que les enfants sont encore petits, que les tâches ménagères font perdre du temps et provoquent des erreurs, et qu’il vaut mieux consacrer ce temps aux études.

我却认为，让孩子做一些适合他们的家务，对他们的成长有很大的好处。

Wǒ (third tone, dipping) què (fourth tone, falling) rènwéi, (fourth tone, falling) ràng (fourth tone, falling) háizi (second tone, rising) zuò (fourth tone, falling) yìxiē (fourth tone, falling) shìhé (fourth tone, falling) tāmen (first tone, high and level) de (neutral tone) jiāwù, (first tone, high and level) duì (fourth tone, falling) tāmen (first tone, high and level) de (neutral tone) chéngzhǎng (second tone, rising) yǒu (third tone, dipping) hěn (third tone, dipping) dà (fourth tone, falling) de (neutral tone) hǎochu. (third tone, dipping)

Je pense au contraire que confier aux enfants des tâches adaptées à leur âge leur est très profitable.

首先，做家务能让孩子学会负责。

Shǒuxiān, (third tone, dipping) zuò (fourth tone, falling) jiāwù (first tone, high and level) néng (second tone, rising) ràng (fourth tone, falling) háizi (second tone, rising) xuéhuì (second tone, rising) fùzé. (fourth tone, falling)

D’abord, les tâches ménagères apprennent aux enfants à être responsables.

如果一个孩子知道，每天晚饭以后洗碗是自己的事情，他不做，家里人第二天就没有干净的碗用，他就会明白，自己也是这个家的一部分，自己的行为会影响别人。

Rúguǒ (second tone, rising) yí (second tone, rising) ge (neutral tone) háizi (second tone, rising) zhīdào, (first tone, high and level) měi (third tone, dipping) tiān (first tone, high and level) wǎnfàn (third tone, dipping) yǐhòu (third tone, dipping) xǐ (third tone, dipping) wǎn (third tone, dipping) shì (fourth tone, falling) zìjǐ (fourth tone, falling) de (neutral tone) shìqing, (fourth tone, falling) tā (first tone, high and level) bú (second tone, rising) zuò, (fourth tone, falling) jiālirén (first tone, high and level) dì (fourth tone, falling) èr (fourth tone, falling) tiān (first tone, high and level) jiù (fourth tone, falling) méiyǒu (second tone, rising) gānjìng (first tone, high and level) de (neutral tone) wǎn (third tone, dipping) yòng, (fourth tone, falling) tā (first tone, high and level) jiù (fourth tone, falling) huì (fourth tone, falling) míngbai, (second tone, rising) zìjǐ (fourth tone, falling) yě (third tone, dipping) shì (fourth tone, falling) zhè (fourth tone, falling) ge (neutral tone) jiā (first tone, high and level) de (neutral tone) yí (second tone, rising) bùfen, (fourth tone, falling) zìjǐ (fourth tone, falling) de (neutral tone) xíngwéi (second tone, rising) huì (fourth tone, falling) yǐngxiǎng (third tone, dipping) biéren. (second tone, rising)

Si un enfant sait que faire la vaisselle après le dîner est son travail, et que s’il ne le fait pas, personne n’aura de bol propre le lendemain, il comprendra qu’il fait partie de cette famille et que ses actes ont des conséquences sur les autres.

这种负责的态度，将来在学习和工作中同样重要。

Zhè (fourth tone, falling) zhǒng (third tone, dipping) fùzé (fourth tone, falling) de (neutral tone) tàidu, (fourth tone, falling) jiānglái (first tone, high and level) zài (fourth tone, falling) xuéxí (second tone, rising) hé (second tone, rising) gōngzuò (first tone, high and level) zhōng (first tone, high and level) tóngyàng (second tone, rising) zhòngyào. (fourth tone, falling)

Ce sens des responsabilités sera tout aussi important plus tard, dans les études comme au travail.

其次，做家务能锻炼孩子解决问题的能力。

Qícì, (second tone, rising) zuò (fourth tone, falling) jiāwù (first tone, high and level) néng (second tone, rising) duànliàn (fourth tone, falling) háizi (second tone, rising) jiějué (third tone, dipping) wèntí (fourth tone, falling) de (neutral tone) nénglì. (second tone, rising)

Ensuite, les tâches ménagères exercent la capacité des enfants à résoudre des problèmes.

衣服怎么洗才干净，买菜的时候怎样选择，钱不够了怎么办，这些都是书本上学不到的知识。

Yīfu (first tone, high and level) zěnme (third tone, dipping) xǐ (third tone, dipping) cái (second tone, rising) gānjìng, (first tone, high and level) mǎi (third tone, dipping) cài (fourth tone, falling) de (neutral tone) shíhou (second tone, rising) zěnyàng (third tone, dipping) xuǎnzé, (third tone, dipping) qián (second tone, rising) bú (second tone, rising) gòu (fourth tone, falling) le (neutral tone) zěnme (third tone, dipping) bàn, (fourth tone, falling) zhèxiē (fourth tone, falling) dōu (first tone, high and level) shì (fourth tone, falling) shūběn (first tone, high and level) shang (neutral tone) xué (second tone, rising) bu (neutral tone) dào (fourth tone, falling) de (neutral tone) zhīshi. (first tone, high and level)

Comment laver les vêtements pour qu’ils soient propres, comment choisir les légumes au marché, que faire quand l’argent ne suffit pas : rien de tout cela ne s’apprend dans les livres.

一个从小就自己做事的孩子，遇到困难时往往不会着急，而是会主动想办法。

Yí (second tone, rising) ge (neutral tone) cóng (second tone, rising) xiǎo (third tone, dipping) jiù (fourth tone, falling) zìjǐ (fourth tone, falling) zuò (fourth tone, falling) shì (fourth tone, falling) de (neutral tone) háizi, (second tone, rising) yùdào (fourth tone, falling) kùnnan (fourth tone, falling) shí (second tone, rising) wǎngwǎng (third tone, dipping) bú (second tone, rising) huì (fourth tone, falling) zháojí, (second tone, rising) ér (second tone, rising) shì (fourth tone, falling) huì (fourth tone, falling) zhǔdòng (third tone, dipping) xiǎng (third tone, dipping) bànfǎ. (fourth tone, falling)

Un enfant qui a appris tôt à se débrouiller seul, face à une difficulté, ne s’affole généralement pas : il cherche de lui-même une solution.

最后，做家务还能增加家人的交流。

Zuìhòu, (fourth tone, falling) zuò (fourth tone, falling) jiāwù (first tone, high and level) hái (second tone, rising) néng (second tone, rising) zēngjiā (first tone, high and level) jiārén (first tone, high and level) de (neutral tone) jiāoliú. (first tone, high and level)

Enfin, les tâches ménagères favorisent aussi les échanges en famille.

很多孩子平时不愿意跟父母说心里话，可是在一起洗菜、做饭的时候，却常常会主动说起学校里发生的事情。

Hěn (third tone, dipping) duō (first tone, high and level) háizi (second tone, rising) píngshí (second tone, rising) bú (second tone, rising) yuànyì (fourth tone, falling) gēn (first tone, high and level) fùmǔ (fourth tone, falling) shuō (first tone, high and level) xīnli (first tone, high and level) huà, (fourth tone, falling) kěshì (third tone, dipping) zài (fourth tone, falling) yìqǐ (fourth tone, falling) xǐ (third tone, dipping) cài, (fourth tone, falling) zuòfàn (fourth tone, falling) de (neutral tone) shíhou, (second tone, rising) què (fourth tone, falling) chángcháng (second tone, rising) huì (fourth tone, falling) zhǔdòng (third tone, dipping) shuōqǐ (first tone, high and level) xuéxiào (second tone, rising) li (neutral tone) fāshēng (first tone, high and level) de (neutral tone) shìqing. (fourth tone, falling)

Beaucoup d’enfants n’aiment guère se confier à leurs parents, mais en lavant les légumes ou en cuisinant ensemble, ils se mettent souvent d’eux-mêmes à raconter ce qui s’est passé à l’école.

父母和孩子一起做饭、打扫房间，一边做一边聊天，比坐在一起看电视更能拉近彼此的距离。

Fùmǔ (fourth tone, falling) hé (second tone, rising) háizi (second tone, rising) yìqǐ (fourth tone, falling) zuòfàn, (fourth tone, falling) dǎsǎo (third tone, dipping) fángjiān, (second tone, rising) yìbiān (fourth tone, falling) zuò (fourth tone, falling) yìbiān (fourth tone, falling) liáotiān, (second tone, rising) bǐ (third tone, dipping) zuò (fourth tone, falling) zài (fourth tone, falling) yìqǐ (fourth tone, falling) kàn (fourth tone, falling) diànshì (fourth tone, falling) gèng (fourth tone, falling) néng (second tone, rising) lājìn (first tone, high and level) bǐcǐ (third tone, dipping) de (neutral tone) jùlí. (fourth tone, falling)

Parents et enfants qui cuisinent ou rangent une pièce ensemble, en bavardant tout en travaillant, se rapprochent davantage qu’assis côte à côte devant la télévision.

当然，让孩子做家务也要注意方法。

Dāngrán, (first tone, high and level) ràng (fourth tone, falling) háizi (second tone, rising) zuò (fourth tone, falling) jiāwù (first tone, high and level) yě (third tone, dipping) yào (fourth tone, falling) zhùyì (fourth tone, falling) fāngfǎ. (first tone, high and level)

Bien sûr, il faut s’y prendre de la bonne manière.

家务应该适合孩子的年龄，不能让他们做有危险的事情。

Jiāwù (first tone, high and level) yīnggāi (first tone, high and level) shìhé (fourth tone, falling) háizi (second tone, rising) de (neutral tone) niánlíng, (second tone, rising) bù (fourth tone, falling) néng (second tone, rising) ràng (fourth tone, falling) tāmen (first tone, high and level) zuò (fourth tone, falling) yǒu (third tone, dipping) wēixiǎn (first tone, high and level) de (neutral tone) shìqing. (fourth tone, falling)

Les tâches doivent être adaptées à l’âge de l’enfant, et on ne doit pas lui confier quoi que ce soit de dangereux.

孩子做得不好的时候，父母也不要批评，而应该多鼓励，告诉他们下次怎样做得更好。

Háizi (second tone, rising) zuò (fourth tone, falling) de (neutral tone) bù (fourth tone, falling) hǎo (third tone, dipping) de (neutral tone) shíhou, (second tone, rising) fùmǔ (fourth tone, falling) yě (third tone, dipping) bú (second tone, rising) yào (fourth tone, falling) pīpíng, (first tone, high and level) ér (second tone, rising) yīnggāi (first tone, high and level) duō (first tone, high and level) gǔlì, (third tone, dipping) gàosu (fourth tone, falling) tāmen (first tone, high and level) xià (fourth tone, falling) cì (fourth tone, falling) zěnyàng (third tone, dipping) zuò (fourth tone, falling) de (neutral tone) gèng (fourth tone, falling) hǎo. (third tone, dipping)

Quand un enfant s’y prend mal, les parents ne doivent pas le critiquer, mais l’encourager et lui expliquer comment mieux faire la fois suivante.

有的父母担心孩子做得太慢，看了一会儿就忍不住自己去做了，这样孩子永远也学不会。

Yǒude (third tone, dipping) fùmǔ (fourth tone, falling) dānxīn (first tone, high and level) háizi (second tone, rising) zuò (fourth tone, falling) de (neutral tone) tài (fourth tone, falling) màn, (fourth tone, falling) kàn (fourth tone, falling) le (neutral tone) yíhuìr (second tone, rising) jiù (fourth tone, falling) rěn (third tone, dipping) bu (neutral tone) zhù (fourth tone, falling) zìjǐ (fourth tone, falling) qù (fourth tone, falling) zuò (fourth tone, falling) le, (neutral tone) zhèyàng (fourth tone, falling) háizi (second tone, rising) yǒngyuǎn (third tone, dipping) yě (third tone, dipping) xué (second tone, rising) bu (neutral tone) huì. (fourth tone, falling)

Certains parents, trouvant l’enfant trop lent, ne peuvent s’empêcher au bout d’un moment de faire à sa place ; ainsi, l’enfant n’apprend jamais.

学习当然重要，但是学会照顾自己和别人，也是成长中不能缺少的一课。

Xuéxí (second tone, rising) dāngrán (first tone, high and level) zhòngyào, (fourth tone, falling) dànshì (fourth tone, falling) xuéhuì (second tone, rising) zhàogu (fourth tone, falling) zìjǐ (fourth tone, falling) hé (second tone, rising) biéren, (second tone, rising) yě (third tone, dipping) shì (fourth tone, falling) chéngzhǎng (second tone, rising) zhōng (first tone, high and level) bù (fourth tone, falling) néng (second tone, rising) quēshǎo (first tone, high and level) de (neutral tone) yí (second tone, rising) kè. (fourth tone, falling)

Les études comptent, bien sûr, mais apprendre à prendre soin de soi et des autres est une leçon indispensable pour grandir.